Look, it is not about how slick you talk. It is about whether the other person gives a damn. You live with something heavy – pain, disability, whatever – and half the time you think maybe you are not making sense. Maybe it’s your poor communication skills
But it’s not you. It’s them. If they wanna understand, they’ll lean in, they’ll figure it out. If they don’t, it doesn’t matter how you say it, they’ll still act lost. That’s on them, not you.